“Jim and Mary,

I just learned of Megan's passing. Megan was a spirited individual who brought many smiles to my face during our time together at AHS. I think of her often and the many life lessons I learned from her. Megan enjoyed back rubs and individual reading time. I think she enjoyed the attention and not the story which was fine by me. Megan was quick to let us know when we did not understand her and her ability to communicate was amazing. I will miss that beautiful smile and the cuddles we shared. ”

“I love you
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“We are so sorry for your loss and would like to extend our condolences. It is our sincere hope that you find comfort and peace in our most loving heavenly Father. In the Holy Scriptures at Isaiah 35:6 it says, "At that time the lame will leap like the deer, And the tongue of the speechless will shout for joy." Yes in the near future God will wipe out all tears, remove sickness and death, even restoring our lost loved ones back to life. Please, read John 5:25-29 and Revelation 21:3-5. With our deepest sympathy.”

“So sorry to hear about Megan passing into wonderful eternal life. Now she is smiling, dancing and singing with Jesus! Prayers and Hugs for you and family. She had a wonderful family and friends. MEMORIES ARE THE BEST, CHERISH THOSE!”

“I am so deeply sorry to hear about Megan. Working at FAH during college was one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. That time in my life shaped me into the woman I am today. Working with Megan and seeing your family at the house showed me what true love and compassion looked like. I remember Megan loving cuddles and back scratches. Her smile was infectious. I will miss her so much. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. ”

“I am so sorry to hear of Megan's passing. I have fond memories of her from the time she was at WB and then in high school with Diane.”

“Jim, Mary & family,

We were sadden to hear of the loss of your daughter and sister, you are in our thoughts and prayers and have our sincerest condolences. May God bless you all during this time of sadness and grief.
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“To the Pappas Family, Back in the day of Crawford wrestling we were around you and your family often and we got to see what a devoted family you were to not only little Megan but the other children as well. You were blessed with one of God's Angels while still on earth and in return you got to love her and she got to have you as her loving parents while here visiting. Blessings come in small packages and large ones too. We are praying for Megan and for you. God is with her now and you will see her again. Love and sympathy Mike and Page Crawford”

“So sorry to hear about Megan. We will always remember her beautiful smile. We're keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.”

“Deepest sympathy to the whole family!!! Embrace the good memories and know you have a pretty special angel to watch over each and every one of you!!! RIP Megan :( ”

“We were so saddened to hear about Megan. She was such a special gift to the Pappas family and her memories will be cherished. I remember meeting her when Emily and Shannon attended Wartburg College. Megan was such a beautiful and sweet girl and so dearly loved by her sisters! Know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers at this time. May God grant you peace and strength.
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“Jim and Mary,
We wish to extend our sincere condolences on Megan's passing. We have always been touched and inspired by your gentle love and care for her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.”

“Jim, Mary, and family:

Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. I was a House Coordinator at the Duff House when Megan first joined the FAH's family. Many thoughts and prayers to you. ”

“So sorry to hear about Megan. I have many special memories of the time that we spent together. You are in my thoughts and prayers.”

“Jim, Mary and family, so sorry to hear about Megan. Such a loss for your family. Know our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
Patty and Dan Huisenga”

“Mary and Jim, please accept my sincerest sympathies for the loss of Megan. I pray for your strength and acceptance.”

“Jim and Mary- I am sorry for your loss. I still remember meeting Megan for the first time at your home and remember thinking what a vibrant young lady she was and what a loving family you were. She was one very loved girl, both my her family and her caregivers. I am sure she is dancing in heaven as I write this. Your family is in my prayers and I am thankful for having had the chance to get to know Megan and her very loving parents. ”

“Dear Pappas Family,
We are saddened to hear of Megan's passing. I know that you will hold cherished memories of her in your hearts forever. Blessings to you all.
Jodi and Dick Horton”

“I was very sad about Meghan passing. Megan was very delightful to work with and I enjoyed taking her on all of her outings, including the pool. Enjoyed working with Megan in her home and community outings. Laura K.”

“It is with great sadness to hear what has happened and our sweet Megan has passed. I worked for FRH about 8 years ago for about 3 years and had many sweet encounters with Megan. We always cuddled. I'm so sorry for your lost and I know FAH will miss her. She touched everyone! XOXO”

“Jim & Mary,

I had the pleasure to work with Megan when I worked at Friendahip Ark Homes and she was truly a blessing. She brought so much character and spunk to her house and everyone around her. I always loved when she would come over to me on the couch and want to snuggle or have her back rubbed. She was truly a blessing and thought be so much about myself. I was shocked and saddened by the news of Megs but I am reassure by knowing she is in a better place now watching down on all her family and friends. ”

“Jim and Mary,

I am writing up some thoughts and memories of Megan that I would like to give you in person. However, for now, this will do.

I have spent the last decade focusing on being independent, strong, and tough. I pushed away my sensitivities, my compassion, and my ability to really feel, open up, and get close to people. I viewed these things as a vulnerability, a weakness. As a result, I have not been too close to many people and have often isolated myself.

The first time I met Megan I felt intimidated. I had no experience with special needs when I came into this job and Megan intimidated me. However, in my first week of knowing her, I had a very distinct moment with her alone in her room (that I will elaborate on in the text I plan on writing for you both). I felt a real connection with her and learned I was able to communicate with her quite easily. In all of my traveling, I have found that my non-verbal relationships (due to language barriers) are actually far deeper and special than my relationships where I can yap away with someone. There is something about being in tune to the needs and feelings of someone through subtle cues, that is very special and requires a deeper connection.

Megan changed me. She brought out qualities in me that I believe are inherent to my persona, qualities I had pushed away for years. She made me a better person. I grew so much as a person through my interactions with Megan, through getting to know her, through trying to make her day a little more fun or better.

I respected Megan so much. We had a lot in common and I could see where she was coming from even in her most stubborn and difficult moments. She strived for independence. She knew what she wanted and would stop at nothing to get it. She did not like being stuck in a chair or being told what to do. Megan often had an aversion to authority. She was easily bored. These are all things I can relate to and I loved her for it!

I remember the first time Megan kissed me on the cheek and I remember all the times she kicked me in the face. Megan was endearing in her most stubborn moments as well as her most affectionate moments.

I have been in shock, I have been angry, and I have been hopelessly sad since this weekend. Her passing has weighed on me tremendously. My relationship with her was unique and special and cannot be replaced. My heart goes out to the both of you as I cannot imagine a more difficult and tragic situation.

I only knew Megan for six months. However, Megan has played a large role in me finding and being comfortable with the sensitive sides of myself that are much truer to my intrinsic nature then I ever wanted to admit. I was able to open up, get close to, and really feel for Megan. My relationship with her helped me realize I am able to do this with others. She has changed me in ways that no one else, not even myself, has ever been able to. I will love her forever that.

Love, Shea
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“Jim, Mary, Emily and Jennifer,
We were so very sad to hear about sweet Megan's passing. We are sending love and prayers to you and your family during this difficult time and wish we were able to be with you this weekend. Megan is surely singing with Yiayia in heaven! Love, Dan and Cathy ”

“I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Megan at the Mainstream Center and she had one of the biggest personalities packed into her small size. Her smile could really brighten up a day. My condolences to family and friends who are feeling her loss.”

“We are sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers.”

“Coach Pappas. I am sorry to hear the sorrowful news of Megan's passing.

As you grieve, know that my family and I are remembering you and honoring the memory of Megan.

I trust that you will find peace in the wonderful memories of Megan, and those memories of her will eventually overshadow the pain of your loss.

- Daven, Jen, Katelyn, and Tommy Doobay”

“I didn't know Megan, but my dad, Jack Moore, certainly enjoyed it when she and her dad would stop by to visit him on one of their walks or rides. My dad's been gone for over 5 years now, so he and Megan will have lots of catching up to do. With heartfelt sympathy. - Marcia Moorp”

“Mary,Jim, and family
I was attending a RS-Nevada bball game and learned of this sad news. Of course the memories of you caring, holding, and giving Megan unconditional love swarmed my thoughts. So many HS softball games were attended by Megan while she watched her stud sister Jennifer play ball. On the hottest of days Mary and Jim would be cuddling Megan. You gave her everything she needed. God bless Megan and may God bring peace to your hearts. ”

“My heart dropped when I found out this, my prayers to the Pappas family! I'll never forget how excited she got to see Jim each week to trike around, the smiles and teasing she would give, and the spunk and energy she always had! She taught me more things than any education could, and her abilities were always an inspiration to all around her.”

“I am sorry to hear about Megan's passing. We remember her from ChildServe, as our son Andy Bishop also attended there. Our sincere condolences to her family at this sad time.
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“Please know your family is in our prayers.”

“Jim and Mary
My heart was very saddened to hear of Megan's passing. She was one of the first young women to teach me the challenges and joys of physical therapy. She always kept me on my toes and thinking; her quirky humor and sweetness constantly took my breath away. I am honored to have known her and to have been included in a small part of her life. She will not be forgotten.”

“I have known Megan Pappas for a very long time I was her roommate back when I live in friendship Ark and when I started working at mainstream living as an activities aide I was working with Megan Pappas she is a sweet loving lady Megan loved everything I miss you Megan Pappas you will never be forgotten rest in peace Megan soon you will meet everyone you know”

“May God bring you Peace and Love through all the wonder filled memories you have of Megan. Jim and Mary, God gave you Megan to love, nurture and cherish. You have done so for Megan's life eternal and to His Glory! Our love, Paul and Jean Wittmer”

“Jim, Mary and family,

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your sweet daughter. Please know my heart breaks for you and you have all of my prayers- May God comfort you and wrap His arms around you all!

My sympathy and love,
Scherfy”

“To the Pappas family, So sorry for your loss. I remember Megan in attendance at the girls softball games, she was always a welcomed site. May God be with at this time. You are in my prayers.”

“I am so very sorry to learn of Megan's passing. Please know I am remembering your family in prayer during this time. Our daughter was 30, and it hurts. God Bless You!”

“Mr. Pappas
Our condolences from Venezuela, Yamilet and I remember your daughter, we always think on your family as a great example of what a courage and family love means.

Hope to see you soon, and remember some good memories.

Roger lopez ”

“My heart aches for your loss. Prayers and love to the entire family.

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“Pappas family,

I remember fondly the deep love you all had for Megan and hope somehow you can find ways to keep her bright memory alive each day.

Hugs and prayers,
Eliza”

“Jim, Mary and family... we are so sorry to hear about the loss of Megan. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

Hugs,
Mark and Julie
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“Jim,Mary and family,
Our thoughts are prayers are with you all. Sending you prayers for your hearts and a sense of peace that Megan is with Jesus smiling down on you all.

Jody, Luke, Jake and Izzy Kapustka ”

“Mary,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Shelby”

“Mary and Jim my heart goes out to you in this sad time . thoughts and prayers to your family .”

“Jim, Mary, & Family,
Our deepest sympathy to all of you who loved Megan so much. She was a very special girl. We know that you will see her again in eternity and what a grand reunion that will be together with all your loved ones!

............Jim & Diana Brown & Family”

“Mary you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers durning this difficult time.”

“Jim, Mary and family - we are so sorry to hear about Megan. Sending our prayers to you for peace. Bless you for the example of love you have shown to all of us.”

“Jim, Mary, Emily, and Jennifer--My deepest sympathy to you all, your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Megan was very special to me and will always be a friend that has a special spot in my heart. Praying that God wraps His arms around you all.”

“Dear Jim, Mary and Family,
We were so sad to hear about Megan today from Diana. We know she is in a better place but the missing her hurts so deep. May your memories sustain you until you can be together again. God bless you in these tough times and give you peace.
Love, Sandy, Craig and Diana O'Riley”

“Coach Pappas and Family, I am extremely sorry to here about Megan's passing. You all will be in our prayers during this difficult time. ”

“So very very sorry for your loss. I have a 27 year old brother with cdls and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.”

“Mary, Jim, Emily and Jenn,

We want to express how deeply sorry we are for Megan's death. We wish this journey on no one so it saddens us you walk this new path. May God wrap His loving arms around you all. Please know we are here if you need anything.

Cindy, Devin, Brittany, Brian ”

“Sorry very sorry for your loss. Your CdLS family grieves with you. May you find comfort in the many wonderful memories you have of Megan.”

“Jim, Mary, Emily and Jennifer,
I'm so saddened to hear about Megan. I remember the day I found out that you were expecting your second child and I remember the day Megan was born. I have so many great memories of Megan's smiling face and her, sometimes, stubborn side. It was a priviledge to have been able to do her hair for many many years! God bless your family!”

“Mary, Jim , and family,

Although Megan never spoke to me, she taught me so much. I can never describe our relationship. There truly is no label for it. I will miss her terribly. Friday afternoon, her and I had a wonderful time bowling and snacking ( by the way we won!!). And she smiled and gave me some love taps. I am so glad we spent that afternoon together. I am so thankful that I got to spend three blessed years with your wonderful daughter. I can't express how much I loved Megan and everything she gave me. What a wonderful and feisty soul. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary and Jim : you have set an amazing example for parents everywhere. I have learned so much from you both and admired your dedication to your daughter from afar. Please know that you and Megan have impacted my life greatly.

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“My heart aches for all of you. I pray you find yourselves surrounded by love and serenity.
Sincerely,
A new mom of a CdLS miracle. ”

“My deepest condolences to you and your family. ”

“I am sorry on the loss of Megan from Missy Wierson”

“Oh. The fun memories we all have from Megans time with Childserve. Several of us spent time this morning sharing fun stories. There were many, "remember the time when....." accompanied with lots of smiles and laughter.Megan had such great spirit and instantly carved out a little place in your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Please Know that she was a very loved young lady who will never be forgotten. ”

“So sorry to hear about your loss. Your family is in our prayers. ”

“We were so very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers. God bless.
David and Janet German

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“So sorry to hear about Megan. It's been many years since I first met her in Ames, but she has left a lasting impression on my heart. My prayers are with your family. ”

“Mary and Jim, We are so sorry to hear of Megan's passing. Our hearts go out to you and your family as you grieve for your precious girl. Megan will be so missed by everyone who knew her smile and funny antics. Love and Prayers, Dan and Dana Barnard”

“Dear Pappas Family-

I had the pleasure of getting to know Megan while working at ChildServe. So was a wonderful gal and made me laugh every time I was around her.

Thanks for sharing her with us.

Hugs and Prayers to your Family
Angie Van Patter”

“Dear Mary & Jim,
We are saddened to hear of Megan's passing. You are our hearts and prayers today. In Deepest sympathy for you and your family,
Joe & Jan”

“Coach, Mary and Pappas family,
Our thoughts and prayers to you and your family! We will miss seeing Megan on her tricycle ride around the neighborhood! The Vasey's”

“We are so sorry for your loss. We will especially miss the special smiles Megan always gave so freely to Chad. You are in our thoughts and prayers. ”

“Jim, Mary, and family
Just heard of Megans' passing. I can see her dancing and singing and NO MORE PAIN. I am blessed to have known Megan and all of you. What a LOVING family. I know there will be a large void in your family but we know she is in a better place. She is now with the BEST "caregiver" of ALL!!!
Special prayers for comfort for all of you.”

“I enjoyed her on the many field trips
Out at McFarland park. So sorry for your loss.”

“Jim, I am so sorry for your loss, it is hard to loose a child at any age. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers - Ben, Elizabeth, and Emmalynn Matthies”

“You have our sympathy. May God be with you and your family in your time of grieving.”

“Jim, Mary and families,

My heartfelt prayers and sympathies are with you all.
Megan was always so happy and loved to see Roger whenever he was in town.
We all know she is happy dancing and enjoying in Heaven.

Cyndie and Families”

“I am so sorry to hear of Megan's passing. Praying that your family finds peace in the coming days.”

“Jim, Mary and Family
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. May you find strength in your faith and comfort in your memories of Megan. Holding you close in prayer.

Sheri Harrison
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“Mary and Jim, So sorry to hear about Megan. I always looked forward to seeing her at church on Christmas Eve. I will also remember the summer she was in my class. What a joy she was.”

“Jim Mary and family
I'm sorry to hear of Megan's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all your family”

“So sorry to hear about Megan. Sending prayers. Loved seeing her at the pool in the summer time. She seemed to really love the water. God Bless.”

“Me &I Mrs Pappas I am so sorry to hear about Megan she was a pretty awesome girl!! Thoughts and prayers are with you!! ”

“Mary, Jim, Emily, and Jennifer,
Our deepest sympathy. Megan was such a sweetheart and loved by everyone that she met. I know she will be missed by all of you and your memories of her will carry you forward. God bless you all. Hugs
Sandy and Howard Hecht”

“Jim, Mary & family - I am so sorry to hear of Megan's passing. Thoughts and prayers with you and your whole family during this difficult time.
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“My heart just aches at this news, but I hope you can find comfort in knowing that Megan is at peace and is walking hand and hand with Jesus (with no shoes on for sure). Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Much love to all of you. ”

“So sorry to hear about Megan... always smiling when you guys were out walking.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Jane Ramthun”

“Knowing Megan is in God's hands, feeling only wonderful things is such a reassurance She will now be able to sing and dance with her Grandmas & Grandpas. I will miss her dearly. You are a wonderful family and I am blessed to have met you and shared time with your daughter.”

“Jim, Mary and family,
So sorry for the loss of your daughter and sister. Our hearts break for all of you! Hold tight to the memories with Megan. May your deep faith bring you comfort and please know so many are praying for you!
Janet, Molly, Erik and Alyssa Schaeffer
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“I am so sorry to hear about Megan. I can still remember her at our wedding 23 years ago in her fancy little dress with no shoes on!! God bless you and your family! Love you all:) JoAnn”